Condolences
We never had the opportunity to meet Terry Sr in person but felt like we knew him from our relationship with his son Terry. He described him as loving and committed to his wife and family. He loved to drive and travel and had a wonderful sense of humour.
We sure wish we got a chance to meet in person- but our hearts are heavy regardless. Sending our love,
John and Alison Jozsa
Q: What will you never forget about Terry?
A: RIP Terry, I will always remember his care and dedication to Judy. It was beautiful to see.
And during his visits to Albright he would visit and joke with my mother Pauline and call her his little sister because their birthdays were so close and they were the same age.
He brought joy to everyone he met. We were lucky to have spent time with Terry.
I am so glad to have known Terry! We became friends through the Alzheimer’s support group at Albright manner. He was so much fun to joke around with and also share some deep conversations with. The way he was always ready to help others and go out of his way to do so will always stand out in my memory of him. An example we can certainly learn from.
My sincere condolences to you, Terry and Lisa and your families. God be with you all.
To everyone who ever had the pleasure of knowing
Terry would remember His distinctive laugh.
I started at Melburn in the early 80's not sure if He was working for Mr. Larson at that time. Great guy always ready to give you help or support when in need. Good times Terry R.I.P.
Met Terry at Melburn Truck Lines in the 80s. Enjoyed our epic battles of Ms PAC Man. Terry always had a joke. Your Dad was a one-of-a kind guy and will be missed.May your happy memories give you peace and comfort during this time.
So sorry to hear Mr Magoo passed away.he sure made me laugh over the years working for Melburn truck lines.he sure was a good man.RIP
I met Terry through working at Timmies in Smithville. He was always a friendly smiling face, cracking jokes and enjoying social time in The restaurant with the other men who were our regular customers every day. I do not work at Timmies anymore, but I would still see him time to time when I have been in town, still with a coffee in hand, enjoying time with friends and smiling. He is a pleasant presence that will be missed. My condolences and prayers go to his family.
Going to miss our bike rides together.
Sadly missed by Dale and Charlene and your relatives in P.E.I.
Roger Perry
I first met Terry in 1981,I was new to the trucking industry and Terry took me under his wings and helped me learn how to navigate the seaports of NJ & NY. Any time I had troubles on the hiway he was there to help me!!
Truly a nice gentleman that would do anything for you! Yes, a sense of humor!!
I didn't know Terry Sr, but I know his son Terry and his wife Crystal and their sons. I know this for sure - from what I've read in others' comments, the apple didn't fall far from the tree. What better tribute to someone than to speak about their son and comment on what a sweetheart of a man Terry Jr. is, as a son, a husband, a son in law, a dad, a friend. I know you will be sorely missed. May you rest in peace Mr. Mackay, I'm pretty sure there's a Harley up there with your name on it. Blessings to your family. Sincerely, Ann Jung (partner in shenanigans with Leona Murray)
Going to miss you brother, there will be always a place at the table on our Thursday Nights for you, and a spot on our rides, cause I know in spirit you will be there with us. Myself and Hans and Steve will miss your jokes and your corky quick comebacks. Take your ride slow and steady. I know it will be clear ride and with the smoothest roads keep your wrist twisted, I can see you now smiling all the way to the light my friend and you looking in your mirrors seeing Hans, Steve and myself giving you thumbs up in the one hand and the salute in the other. You will be miss alot brother, but TILL WE MEET AGAIN YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS AND MEMORY. TILL WE MEET AGIAN MY BROTHER.......TILL WE MEET AGAIN!
Peter
As we Live, Laugh and Love thru Life, We are never prepared for the Loss of Family...It's with a heavy heart that I send My Deepest Condolences & Thoughts to Judy, Lisa, Terry Jr. and your Families for your loss...Cuz's Devotion for Judy and Love for Family is a constant reminder for me of the Proud McKay connection I hold deep in My Heart...May Terry's Strength and Spirit carry you through this difficult time.....Rest in Peace Cuz.....Always Remembered...Never Forgotten....
Lisa and family, I am truly sorry for the loss of your father. I am wishing you lots of strength in the time ahead. Sincerest condolences- Anja
My condolences to the family ready in peace you will missed
My Dear Uncle Terry.
This one hurts really bad. When people pass you tend to put them on a pedestal and forget or block out any of their wrong doings but it’s important to remember all of them including their faults. For me, he was already on a pedestal, I have admired him since I was a little kid.
I loved going to their place in Smithville, My favourite memory is having Uncle Terry teach me how to swim. But it wasn’t just because they had a pool or many cats, or even that I got a ton of Voortman double chocolate swirl cookies, It was a warm and welcoming place with Aunt Judy making sure the meal got to the table piping hot and Uncle Terry telling jokes and making my parents, Eddie and Goldie laugh.
He could do no wrong in my eyes, Even when he was on my case for not visiting more often. I couldn’t be mad or irritated, He was right. He wasn’t scared to speak his mind though he did keep it reeled in most of the time, He always came from a good place. He wasn’t a fan of me swearing, would say he should only hear that from his trucker friends. He would always tell me to be good to my husband, Which I resented. His openness allowed me to do the same, I could poke fun and tell him YIKES when he’d say something that is no longer socially acceptable. He would argue that it’s fine he means no harm and I would tell him, I know I am just warning you. He was sensitive, a great listener and helpful. I was having trouble remembering to take my meds and he text every day to remind me until I got back on track.
He has always had good friends over the years the type where they plan a bike trip but one can’t go so they decide they all shouldn’t go.
He would make friends anywhere and ones that last. He thought the world of so many of them from all different places from Hanz to Daina to Sanjay to Eva.
He knew how to make people feel special and included. He’d have a little dig or quip with everybody he interacted with. Watching him say Bye to the residents on the 2nd floor was the best. He would take the time to say it and do his shtick with everyone and you could see in their faces they loved it and appreciated him. He was Betty’s boyfriend and they were planning to have a child at one point. He would get to Aunt Judy’s neighbour Joy and literally jump in the air and say to her when I see you I jump for Joy!
He really cared for all of the people at Albright the residents like Lois or Nancy who were on different floors than Aunt Judy. Helping anyone on the second floor who needed it, convincing them they don’t want to leave or helping Ralph find his room. He would tell me about his favourite PSW’s like Lori and her kids. He cared about them and so many others you could go on and on.
There is not a single person who knew Uncle Terry that isn’t aware of how much he loved his family.
He was so proud of his kids and grandkids and showed off their pictures to everyone.
His unwavering love, care and attention for Aunt Judy for 57 plus years was the most heart warming, admirable relationship to get to watch and be a part of. His Anniversary get togethers showed he just wanted to celebrate their love with the people he loves. The emotional toll Alzheimer’s takes is unimaginable to most but he lived it everyday. He continued to work hard to put a smile on his face, Aunt Judy’s and everyone else. When he was going through a rough patch he made it his goal everyday to make someone smile. Making people laugh made him happy. He cherished every day he had with Aunt Judy and was grateful to still get to hold her hand, give her a kiss and have dinner with her. He was worried if he wasn’t around Aunt Judy wouldn’t get many visitors. I hope he isn’t right.
I thought we’d have more time together and I’m sure not alone when I say I am shocked and devastated. I could go on and on about him and how great he was. He impacted so many people and I am grateful he will live on in all of us. I am a better person because I had the pleasure of knowing him and the privilege of calling him my Uncle.
He was the light in every room and he will be the brightest star in the sky.
To my dear Aunt Judy, cousins Lisa, Terry, Crystal all the grandkids Nathan, Callum, Samantha and Courtney, as well as extended Family and many Friends and Acquaintances my condolences to everyone. He will surely be missed by many.
Holly and Evan Powell (Campbell)
We at Lacky’s restaurant will miss his sense of humour and his great Witt. It was always our pleasure to wait on him. Our condolences to his family. Rest in piece my friend
This saddens me beyond words!!!! Rest easy, ride hard!!! ♥️
Q: What will you never forget about Terry?
A: Terry was a neighbour and we used to call him uncle Terry because he was so present in our lives. He was more than just a neighbour. Terry would always tell me to stop sucking my thumb or he would cut it off, or not to stick my tongue out because he would probably also cut that off haha. I got the chance to retaliate as I found rabbit poop in the snow and I told him it was raisins. Before he could pop it in his mouth my mom yelled NO! THAT'S RABBIT POOP. Terry went to Georgia on one of his many work trips and he brought back a doll and he gave it to me. I called her Georgina so i remembered where I got it from. And I still have her today. Terry will be missed.